Madison - posted on 05/24/2016 ( 8 moms have responded )
Hello, I'm 25 weeks pregnant with a baby girl, 18 years old. I've lived in between Cincinnati and Missouri for the past few years. I was staying in Cincinnati when I met the father of her and dated him for a brief period of time, I pretty much got pregnant instantly despite being on birth control. When i realized how emotionally abusive and controlling he was I broke things off with him, and moved back to Missouri where my family is. I found out a few weeks after coming back I was 8 weeks pregnant. I called andinformed him that I was pregnant and he said something along the lines of "get an abortion". We didn't talk for weeks and then I got extremley ill with Hyperemesis Gravidarum. I informed him I had been hospitalized with no response. Fast forward 5 weeks and they had found my gullbladder needed out. I left him a voicemail telling him I was going to get surgery and this could be a potential risk to the baby-no response. Out of nowhere his girlfriend messaged me on facebook and told me I was faking pregnant. When i showed her evidence that I indeed wasn't, she told me he was going to take me to court for full or split custody as soon as the child was born. Expecting some sort of backlash considering how horrible and spiteful of a human being he is I've saved receipts from everything I've bought for her, and all my medical bills, along with the private insurance I will be paying out of pocket for her as soon as she arrives. What is his chances of getting split custody with him living 800 miles away? How do you think this will all play out? I really don't trust him to care for himself, let alone an infant who he hasn't even bothered to contribute towards.
*I plan to not have him on the birth certificate unless he gets a court ordered paternity test, the harder i make it for him to hurt me or my daughter, the best*