fathers rights?

Tatiana - posted on 06/07/2012 ( 5 moms have responded )

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hi everyone....i have 15months old a boy with married man whos keept me 2 and half year about together future and divorce....he didnt divorce and when our son had 1 year i found out that he is still with his wife....anyway i dont want to stop a father to see his child and i gave him offer that he can come to visit his son 2 per week and he can take him out but only in my presence coz i do not trust him and his wife as well.....a father doesnt like my offer and he wants to take to courth coz he got all rights to take a son where he wants but his wife is a an agressive person with violent manners....everything i have wrote with silicitors also.....a father got a phobia to change his son nappies,he is not paying a maintenance for his son not for his needs,he makes a lot of lies....also i saw his wife on christmas time drunk and fighting with her own daughter,in the past she was cutting herself to get more attention,during my pregnancy she sent me texts saying :you are dead u fucking foreing..im slovak...also his niece said to me that he and she are physically fighting all the time,his stepdaughter had problem with drugs and also with partner and domestic violent and im affraid to give him a son to take him to his wife and her family also to stepdaughter.....but he doesnt like it....also he got 2 months to proof himself how he is interest about son...in this time he missed 2 visits his son and 3times he arrived late.....do someone give me a advice about it?next week i got mediation but i do not want make a agreement with him coz i dont want take him our son out.....i know that i cant trust him and also his family.....thanks

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Tatiana - posted on 06/07/2012

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i hope so 2....im just thinking why my silicitor didnt tell me about full custody with supervised visits?he got 2 months visits in my presence but because he was more interest about me than son and he missed visits so i said stop and now im waiting for mediation but he try fraiting me that he will win and im going be very unhappy ...he said his silicitor that im liar and his family are ok ...im affraid but i hope be fair is going be on my side

America3437 - posted on 06/07/2012

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You seem to be on the right track. I hope it all works out for you and your precious son.

Tatiana - posted on 06/07/2012

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thank u i have a silicitor but im waiting for a mediation next week.....america....i know he has rights to see his son and i said before i do not want to stop him but i dont want him to take son near his family....and yes i will running away from married men but when i met him he wasnt with wife but he was live with parents and he showed me letter about divorce,but was my fault i did trust him very long time but now is not important im ok about it only i want to protect my child thanks

America3437 - posted on 06/07/2012

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File for full custody with supervised visits. He has every right to see his son. I think with some witness to the violence and proof of his inability to control his own household would help. Good luck! Oh and next time stay away from the married men. They only bring trouble.

Dove - posted on 06/07/2012

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Get a lawyer and tell them everything. They will have the best advice and help for your specific situation.

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