Fred - posted on 04/15/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )
For all you Moms out there that keep your children from their Fathers perhaps you should join a father's rights group and see the other side. I have been in a 5 year custody battle to see my daughter in Germany where dogs have more rights than Fathers. I have moved to Germany to be with my kid - given up my career in NYC been thru 7 lawyers 3 judges 5 court appearances and only have 3 hours Tuesday and Saturday.
No over nights no vacations zero — now My daughter has been brainwashed that she can’t stay with me.
The world court ruled against Germany for human rights violation towards fathers in 2010--
Just this month Germany finally agreed they have to bring their laws into the right way.
What no one ever talks about about is this is run by the lawyers for money — the judges are in bed with the system..
Mothers are pawns in their money making scheme.. They use you to make their fortune — Is is sad because if Fathers got %50 at the start
They would be out of work very fast.
In Germany they are setting up the new law where every Father has to take every mother to court — The courts will be plugged up for years.
But please understand the Lawyers are buddies with the politicians and they are making sure they get their last EU’s before the system change and they will have to reinvent their business model.
With my ex I always says “ Just flip the rights . The visitaion.” Being German and believing in paper she would agree to this only if a judge would rule this way,
But her lawyer and the judge are buddies so never going to happen.
In closing I am a good father pay every month see her on the assigned days , bought a house with a big garden – I believed in the system and humanity.
The system has drained me financially and emotionally and has done my daughter no good.
My daughter and I are very close. We are defeated at every turn .
So try stepping into some Father’s shoes for a while. I hope posting this helps some child that misses her father.