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My bf and I moved out of state while I was pregnant so he could pursue his dream job (still in progress). I am currently not working (crossing fingers to land a job) yet I still can't manage to find the time to take care of myself on top of my 6 month old son and house work. I am exhausted and frustrated! My bf, who don't get me wrong is a great dad, isn't much help to me. I prefer to do the housework myself since whenever he attempts to it ends up being half ass. I am the one who wakes up in the night and early every morning, does the feeding, bathing, I feel like he really only helps out when it comes to playing. I've asked him many times if we could take turns on different days but he said it's my job, I'm his mom. Really? Very rarely is he the one to wake up with him. It's hard for me because I don't have any family or friends around to lend a helping hand. I guess I'm just looking for some advice on how to juggle all of this! I feel like I'm letting myself go and my relationship is heading south.