Dawn - posted on 11/25/2012 ( no moms have responded yet )
I have three children 1 boy who is 7, 2 girls who are 10 ( they are 10 months apart) one will turn 11 in Jan. I just recently found out that i am 9 weeks pregnant, and my two youngest are devistated...they cried which made me cry too. This was NOT planned, and took my husband and i by total shock. I am having a very hard time with it, and most of the time i just pretend like im not. Basically i just dont think about it...because i feel like im hurting my son who is hurting way more than any of them. He has been my baby, and i have babied him quite a bit. I feel bad because he feels bad, although he says hes ok with it now...i really dont think so. I am always thinking about him hurting....because he asked me one day if he could be the last. I said yes. Then this happened. Will he eventually be ok with this? Has anyone been through this before, that can help me feel better about this whole situation?