Cecilia - posted on 12/13/2012 ( 4 moms have responded )
I gave birth to our second child Nov 5 2012 we have a 4 year old son as well.
Since being home and off of work I have hardly spent any time with my hubby he works nights so when he comes home he goes straight to sleep most times, then he sleeps til the afternoon by then I'm already up with the kids but its like he's not really here not connecting with me
I get upset that he's on his phone all the time and he knows it but I don't wanna tell him what to do with his life.
I feel like I'm just a wife and mother of his kids and that he may take me for granted wanting the house to be clean and food to be made every day for work I just can't do it all and he thinks I can, mind you I'm pumping my milk every few hours for our daughter.
We haven't had sex for at least 2 months but have done other things but after my 6 week check and I get the ok for it I think he won't want to he's scared I may get pregnant again and we don't use condoms and I am breastfeeding and not on birth control. I miss my hubby we never just talk about things that aren't related to kids or money or the typical stuff how can we make this better??????