Amanda - posted on 12/06/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )
My name is Amanda and I'm a 26 yr old with 2 kids. Adriana will be 3 in Feb. And my beautiful baby boy ♥ Aiden would be turning 1 in Feb.,but he is in heaven watching over us now. His dad co-slept with him and killed him. I pretty sure he was on drugs. No one even tested him,so it was ruled accidental. He got away Scot free. My world has been turned upside down. And I just received papers to appear in court bc he wants custody. He has been in and out of my daughters life from the beginning. He would leave for days,wks,months, and I wouldn't hear from him. After my son passed he stuck around for a wk. Then he didn't call for 3 wks! Not even to ask how Adriana was coping with her brother's death. I could go on and on about why he shouldn't get custody but only supervised visits. I let him come see her now. He can come every wk.if he wants to. He usually comes every other wk.for a few hrs. I don't want him taking her anywhere. I do not trust him. Can't have him passing out while driving or watching her. I feel so much better with them here so I can be there if something were to happen. I love her so much and I can't lose her to. But his mommy paid for a lawyer, and I can't afford one. I need one bc I have to protect my baby. I don't know what exactly to do and I'm so scared. Please, if anyone has any advice at all....
Thx: Amanda and Adriana