Roxysluv - posted on 08/29/2015 ( 1 mom has responded )
My family is falling apart and for once in my life its the one thing i can't control. My 12 yr old son has ADHD/ODD. Although he takes meds for his adhd his ODD has got worse over the years. He has so much anger inside him. I don't only have to deal with him. My husband is Bi-polar and his fuse can be very short. There is constant fighting about behavior in my house. Its so hard to deal with both of them, especially at the same time. I've tried talking to my husband telling him he can not show his anger bc my son will just feed off of it. I feel overwhelmed and i have thoughts of running away. I can't do it alone i need my husbands help to make things change. How do i convince someone who is angry himself that there is programs out there we can try and that it will not work right away?
Even when he quit trying 2 yrs ago caring about my sons feelings and also thinks his adhd meds are not working at all.