Feeling hurt

Misty - posted on 10/04/2014 ( 1 mom has responded )




My daughter is 19 and engaged. She moved out in february to live with her now fiance. She has not exactly come out and said she was moving out of state to Michigan but I know she is. how soon I dont know. The other day her fiance who is from Michigan posted on fb he was home sick. i seen last night pictures of her furniture shes trying to sell on fb yard sale sites. When I texted her asking her why she was selling her furniture, if she was moving I got ignored. When I asked her this morning (i work night shift) she replied well be over after I get off of work. I have never lost a child but I feel like I am losing my child! It is killing me inside knowing she is moving away from me. I live in Arkansas. My children didn't have grandparents that were really involved in their life except my dad. they never had the experience to say I am going to grandmas and grandpas house for the weekend. I want that with my future grandchildren and shes taking that away from me! I feel selfish for feeling like this but I cant help it :(


Jodi - posted on 10/04/2014




Wow, she's 19 and engaged, no kids yet, and not telling you of any planned children and you are already planning out the role in the lives of your non-existent grandchildren?

Can you see anything wrong with this picture?

How is it any of your business why she is selling her furniture? Why are you assuming she will keep the grandchildren away from you? Will backing off help?

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