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Iv'e been feeling very neglected and unhappy with my husband for the past year. He never wants to spend time with me or do anything outside of our home with me or our two kids. He spends a lot of time with the neighbors drinking and hanging out every chance he gets. I'm a stay at home mom who doesn't really have any friends. He works all day and when he gets home he talks to me for a while but then it's out the door going over to so and so's house to see what they're doing. While I stay inside cooking dinner. then has the audacity to complain about the food. My other issue is that if he's not over at the neighbors house, then he plays a game and texts on his phone all night ignoring me. It's to the point where the house would burn down and he wouldn't know it. If I say something to him about it he gets really mad. I've caught him emailing a woman he met online with this game he plays and have talked to him about it but he continues to play it. It's like he has no respect for my feelings what so ever. Another problem I'm having to try to look past and get over is the fact that he took a female employee on a business trip first without telling me and secondly continued to lie when i found out they had went to see a show and went to dinners together. The reason I didn't go was because he told me it wouldn't be fun this time around because there would be no time for anything. I don't have anyone to talk to and am trying to have a positive outlook for my kids but I honestly don't know what to do. I don't know why he is treating me so bad. He says I don't like to be social and i like to just sit around in the house. That's completely untrue. I would give anything to be out having a good time but someone has to cook dinner and bathe the kids. Yes, he is a narcissistic ass and who ever reads this will think why stay with him? Well, I don't have much options other than take my kids and be a single mom and work at a job with little pay. I'm wanting to know what other peoples opinions would be on the situation and what i could do to change my circumstances.