Susan - posted on 07/26/2015 ( 3 moms have responded )
My fiancé and his 3 children (8, 10, 12) moved in with my son and me a year ago. We've been together 3 years. He hates my son although he won't admit it. My son is not mean or bad in any way. For most of his life, it was just the two of us and he pretty much did as he pleased within reason. He has a learning disability and is socially awkward and very few friends. His only interests are really video games and his computer. My fiancé's kids are very involved in scouts and sports. He gets aggravated when I don't force my 17 year old son to come with us on all family functions. Frankly, I am very uncomfortable when my fiancé is around my son because he doesn't hide his dislike for him vey well. Also, his kids like to press my sons buttons and he has a very low tolerance for them. I don't know what to do anymore. Any time I try to discuss with m fiancé it turns into an argument. I am looking for advice on things to do to improve their relationship.