Murray_kristi - posted on 11/17/2012 ( 6 moms have responded )
My fiancé has been divorced for 4 years. While he was in divorce proceedings she got pregnant by the man she cheated on him with. Long story short the ex-wife moved in with him during the pregnancy and now he has emotionally adopted her daughter. She is 3 years old and thinks she rules my house and she owns her dad. She is mean to all the kids his and mine. Super clingy and is very good at manipulating situations to her advantage. If one of the kids goes to hug him she runs over and climbs on him and says my daddy, it doesn’t matter if it is his biological or my children. When I go hug him or he goes to kiss me she yells don’t touch my daddy. When it is just her and I she is a sweet as can be, but when her dad or her mom's family is around she milks the I am a baby attitude. She is catered to and it is beginning to push him and me apart as well as all of the children. The mom is very demanding on my fiancé taking her every weekend so we do. I am not sure what to do about her behavior and that family controlling everything and using the little girl against my fiancé if she tries to separate himself from that family.