Amy - posted on 11/07/2013 ( no moms have responded yet )
My husband and i have a 3 month old and ever since he was born we fight about everything. He constantly critizes how warm i make the bottle...he asks to take the baby to give me a break but when the baby starts to cry or get fussy he gets sooo frustrated i feel i need to just take the baby back so i dont get a break. This is turn makes me sooo frustrated and then by bed time we are both upset from arguing and trying to put our baby down to sleep is hell. I dont know what to do...i wish he had more patience with the baby. I know hes tired when he comes home from working 12 hours but i dont see that as an excuse. I deal with our baby all day whether hez crying or not. My husband makes me feel guilty for needing him to help me in the evening a bit. I dont know what to do at this point but something has to change. Im struggling to define my role as a sahm ...some advice would be appreciated.