Foreplay while your a nursing mother............

Kay - posted on 03/31/2010 ( 7 moms have responded )

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When you are breastfeeding/nursing your child.............and then your hubby/significant other/life partner wants to get intimate and your breasts are the focus of there attention how do you feel? I feel kind of weird having my hubby trying to paw all over my breasts right after I have nursed our baby..............Almost uncomfortable, and it's not a hot spot for me while I am a nursing mom, and they don't understand that at all, any feedback.....................anyone feel the same way I do?

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Kay - posted on 03/31/2010

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Shelly you are too funny.................I need to try that. OMG that is so funny.

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LOL, my breasts scared my husband! I would shoot milk like sprinkler heads if the phone rang, the dogs barked, or even if my breasts were exposed. It only took him geting sprayed with milk a few times to not think my new bigger boobs were a novelty item. But yes, it did make me feel weird too.

Kay - posted on 03/31/2010

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Thanks for the input...................I will just have to tell him (the breast man) that it is a HUGE turn off for me to nurse and then let him paw all over the boobies. I appreciate it ladies.

Dawn - posted on 03/31/2010

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Umm...yeah. My breasts are just off limits while I am breastfeeding. Thanks very much, but they are already being used by someone else and that is enough. For me, while they are normally a huge turn on, when I am breastfeeding they are a HUGE turn off. I'd have a discussion with the hubby about it....not during foreplay. Maybe an after dinner conversation or something like that. Once mine understood how much of a turn off it was for me he was able to respect that boundary easier.

Cynthia - posted on 03/31/2010

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Oh yeah I did and I nurse five children over quite a long period of time.
obviously it didn't put him off! You will probably continue to feel non sexual about your breasts until they settle down to a regular rate of production if you are going to breast feed longer than three to six months.
Tell your husband that our skin is more than just the area of your breasts and there are a lot of ways to turn you on than just caressing your breasts, side of your torso, behind your ears, along side your neck, back of the thighs. This is a great time to get him to explore your hot spots, until you stop nursing or your breasts no longer spout milk fountains when you are stimulated.. Have fun getting to know the rest of your body!!

Joanna - posted on 03/31/2010

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For some men, lactating breasts are very sexy, and seen as a fetish (yup, there's nursing mama porn!).



I do know what you mean though... personally, during the short time I Was a nursing mom, my husband knew that my breasts were off limits, just because it was not sexy to me anymore, in fact still isn't 2 years later. Everyone is different.

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