Stew - posted on 05/29/2014 ( 10 moms have responded )
I'm very sorry, but I am actually a guy who really needed an opinion from some honest women/mums.
I'm going to try to keep this short. Im 31, my GF is 30. We've been together for 6 months. Recently I was looking for tweezers and I know she keeps some in her pink travel jewelry bag. I went to get some and found a condom in there. We don't use condoms and haven't for last 4 months. She also went away to Center Parcs for 4 nights recently with her girl friends and this bag was packed in her suitcase, I remember seeing it there before she left. This condom was same, make colour and brand that we used when we first met. I wasn't too bothered when I first found it as I put it down to being there from when we first met. But the more I thought about it, fact she went away with it, I don't know if it was or wasn't in there before and she mentioned cheating on one of her ex's in the past due to lack of attention in the relationship, made me question it slightly more. She does very lovely things for me all the time, we spend a lot of time together and she said she loves me. I haven't let on that I found it. She has often said that I'm taken now (as in I'm hers), that she doesnt want to think of me with anyone else, but it was suspicious what I found almost like it was specifically packed. So I wanted an honest opinion from a set of mums.
So my questions:
Am I overreacting?
Should I ask her about it in a non accusing way?
Do women clear out there bags like this?
What are peoples thoughts on this?