Four year old step twins stressing marriage

Cindy - posted on 09/14/2014 ( no moms have responded yet )

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I've been married year now, kids come every other weekend. The last coue months they have come over with love which sitter lashes out in us and we r just picking up then treating due to kids mom doesn't tell us then Broncitis now pink eye we spend whole weekend lysolong washing cleaning etc well I do that is due to being wrote up at work for missi g when I got lice. We take them to pediatrics to get meds go to mom on Sunday. I'm resenting them coming over I know it's not kids fault but te mom should stop down playing their illness and tell is or keep them home I would until they were better. It's causing strife in marriage instead of working with me my husband plays victim says I won't have them over anymore. I just don't know what to do. It's unstructured at the kids moms they kick her hit her to get attention babysitter tells us this and no rules so Sunday when they know going to moms the boy is really bad. This is first weekend I have wanted them to leave does this make me bad person and how to get my husband to see this

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