Danielle - posted on 07/26/2012 ( 5 moms have responded )
I'm freaking out so bad right not I'm a 24 year old mother of two who is about to be going off birth control and am happy with the two kids I have and would hate to start over since both my kids are already in school. I had gotten pregnant on the pill and again on the patch and I have been on the iud since my daughter was born now it's time for it to be taken out and my doctor has informed me he will not give me another iud because of the complications it caused my body. So I've been doing alot of research lately and found out I really shouldn't be on any birth control because it could even cause more issues. My boyfriend of 8 years and father of my child both agree we don't want any more kids but since I can't be on birth control and have a slight allergy to latex I don't know what to do. I've tried getting a tubal but I can't get my medical to pay for it and I don't have the 26,000$ to pay for it myself so I tried talking my boyfriend into getting a vacectomy but he refuses and I really don't understand why. Does anyone have any ideas??? My iud comes out on tuesday the 31st and it's been nothing but stress!!!