Steph - posted on 07/02/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )
I am in a bit of a situation. My husband and I have separated in March, after I have found out about his love affairs.
We have 2 daughters together, 5 and 2.
3 weeks ago, I went out with my single friends, to have some fun, and I have met a guy, we kissed and he asked for my number, so I gave it to him. We have been texting ever since. We have lots of common interests and he is smart and a lovely person, definitely somebody I would like dating when I am ready. Last weekend, he took me for a dinner and then we had a really lovely time at his place. This Saturday, he is cooking me a dinner.
Now the problem is, that I only went out to have fun and I did not expect to find anybody that I will like, as I feel I am not ready for a relationship. I did not tell him that I have two children and that I am freshly separated. I do not think he will like it, and will probably feel betrayed. Maybe I should just quit this thing all together. Maybe I am dramatizing this too much, it will be only our second date this Saturday. What to do, how to tell him?