Friend ignored me when I said bye and said hi in rude tone

Sarahpeterson4ever - posted on 06/25/2016 ( 14 moms have responded )

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This girl at my church said hi in a snappy rude tone when I said hi to her and then when she was leaving and I said bye she completely ignored me. Why is that? I am so upset I don't know what did to make her not want to even say bye.

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Jodi - posted on 06/25/2016

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So what? Just STOP! She has now reached the point of being rude BECAUSE you are being needy, clingy and won't let this go. Who cares why she didn't want to be your friend? Maybe she just doesn't have time for you? Maybe you aren't really her type. Maybe she heard about how needy and clingy you were from others? Who knows? Yet you continue to force yourself on her.....and then wonder why she is now being. outright rude to you.

How many times do people have to tell you to back off before you get a clue?

Jodi - posted on 06/25/2016

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She's not your friend. You are way too needy and clingy. You need to back off. But you've been told that. Your problem is, you don't listen to advice. So I'm thinking you probably don't listen to them when they give you clues either. You are annoying - that's why she doesn't want to be your friend.

Ev - posted on 06/25/2016

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You keep posting on here about the same girl who snubs you at every turn. Leave her alone. She wants nothing to do with you and several have told you this.

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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 06/27/2016

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She is tired of your continued refusal to realize that she has other friends and other interests than a pitifully rude individual who can't take the many polite hints they have been given. For God's sake, find other friends or get a hobby.

I really thought that your parents had shut off your internet by now...smh

~♥Little Miss - posted on 06/26/2016

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Start ignoring her right back. Walk away. Learn to let go.

Sarah - posted on 06/25/2016

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I left for vacation after you posted this exact thing over a week ago! Again, you need to do some harsh self reflection. No one is as rude as you describe fro no reason. She has made is clear she does not want to be your friend and life is realy too short to obsess over one person! Find new friends.

Michelle - posted on 06/25/2016

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OMFG!!!!! Let it go. Who cares WHY she doesn't want to be your friend? She just doesn't!! Get it?
Leave her alone.

Dove - posted on 06/25/2016

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It doesn't matter why she doesn't want to be your friend. NO ONE on the planet is obligated to be your friend OR give you an explanation on why they don't want to be your friend.

If you are anything in person like you are online... you are obnoxious and dense and really, really annoying....

I have to believe you are just posting to BE obnoxious though and none of this is really real. If by chance it is real... seek some therapy to learn how to behave like an emotionally healthy human being.

Yep... I got suckered in. lol Not that it will make an ounce of difference though... you'll be back posting the same insanity in a few days anway.

Sarahpeterson4ever - posted on 06/25/2016

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But thats not the reason she doesnt want to be my friend because her not wanting to be my friend came first.

Jodi - posted on 06/25/2016

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Does it really matter? The fact is, you ARE annoying, needy, and clingy. You have demonstrated that time and time again. She doesn't have to be your friend if she doesn't want to be and she doesn't owe you an explanation. Stop forcing yourself onto people. Get some therapy.

Are you even a parent?

Sarahpeterson4ever - posted on 06/25/2016

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Im annoying by not listening to social clues that she doesnt want to be my friend and thats why she doesnt want to be my friend? Thats really circlular because I dont know why she didn't want to be my friend in the first place

Dove - posted on 06/25/2016

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Just posting to see what kind of comments this generates. Posting to the OP is pointless cuz she's just looking for attention.

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