Frustrated

Bre - posted on 09/29/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )

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Im a stay at home mom, my husband works. I stay home all day, everyday; with my one year old. Today is my husbands day off and i asked if he could take care of her for a little while. He then began to call me lazy, and say that there is no reason i should be tired, because all i do is work and i dont do anything. Is there anyway that i could show him how hard it is to take care of a busy 1 year old . He never has to worry about her. when he falls asleep ,he never has to wake up to check on her. he doesnt have to feed her , bathe her , change her or anything.. He always throws it in my face that i dont work. i would love to go back to work. going to work is a break, he would never be able to deal with her all day everyday!

What do i do? Im sick of him, throwing it in my face. Making it seem as if i do absolutely nothing, i tired.

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Katherine - posted on 09/29/2012

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He obviously doesn't understand you work 24/7. Neither did mine until I went out and he had to watch the kids. Pick a day and tell him you're going out THAT day! No questions. If he doesn't want to, then suggest counseling because this is only going to get worse.

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Bre - posted on 09/29/2012

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I totally agree, i always try to talk to him about , but it's no use. I appreciate your advice, im planning for this weekend. Thank You!

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