Kuei - posted on 04/07/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )
Hi everyone. So my partner and I have a 7 months old son. We live together and depend on centrelink because he can't seem to find work (that's what he says anyway but the truth is he just doesn't wants to work).He smokes weed all day long, gets very angry easily and I think it has something to do with weed - that's another reason why he can't work. He is 40 in a few days and I'm 27. When our son was two months old my partner choked me in front of him but apologized after doing that. I want to go back to work because I want our son to have a good life but I'm scared to leave him in his care because every five minutes he runs to the back of the house to have a smoke. Many times I have told him I want to break up and he says I can go but leave our son behind! Even though he is home 24/7 like me I'm the one who is always looking after our son day and night. He doesn't even change our son's nappy because it will make him puke! Yeah I know he is the father of our son but I just can't leave this guy to be the role model in his life because he will just turn out to be like him and that's not a way of life. He has told me many times if I leave him and take our son he will kill me and kill all my family members. I'm thinking of taking him to court but I'm scared he might actually hurt my family. Any advice and oh I live in Australia.