D - posted on 08/27/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )
Hi - We have a just turned 21 year old. She works at a local restaurant and makes good tips. The power of cash at hand! We moved about 3 years ago right after she graduated from high school. Bc we moved out of state she had to wait a year for in state tuition. By then the urge and desire to go to college/community college was gone.....Now she hangs with friends, stays out most nights, comes home to wash clothes and put in a little "parent" time and is sweet. My husband wants her out bc he can't stand to see her waste her life. She is smart but lazy as much as I hate to admit. I am supposed to talk to her today and have her move out. It's tough. Also - she is the youngest of 3 children the other 2 are quite successful and my husband and myself each have advanced degrees so it's not like she doesn't have any role models....Help!