GETTING A TEN YEAR RELATIONSHIP

Ruby - posted on 03/07/2014 ( 4 moms have responded )

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I have two girls and I been in this relationship for ten years and he just got up and left I know there was thing that led up to that moment Im dtill in disbelief..ten years of my life down the drain.the inly good thing is my girls..I feel myself starting ti have anger towards him. I don't want but it's hard..I just want to be over it

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Ruby - posted on 03/08/2014

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I DO BELIEVE IM WORTH MORE...THATS WHY I JUST WANT TO BE STRONG AND GET OVER IT.

Adriana - posted on 03/08/2014

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YOU ARE WORTH SO MUCH MORE honey! Don't ever allow this experience to convince you that you are undeserving of love. Give those kids a lot of hugging and take it day by day. What you need to do to rebuild will come to you-trust. ♥ Adriana

Adriana - posted on 03/08/2014

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Honey, ANGRY is a much better feeling to have than SADNESS, so make good choices. Feel the anger, but use it to pivot your life in new directions, that is what it's there for. If you let it simmer, it will destroy you. I am recovering from an almost 20yr relationship. This incident cannot define who you are. Try to look for all the good things this relationship has added to making WHO YOU ARE today, since you are not the same person now as 10yrs ago. Take that with you and let the rest go, but by all means, darling be VERY selective with your thoughts at this stage or they can really weigh you down. Big hug to you, Adriana

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