getting my body back

Savannah Lee - posted on 11/07/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )




The last few months of my relationship has not really been good my boyfriend and I have not had sex at all not even some kind of for play I have tried and even tried wearing things that I know he like and still nothing. I dont know what to do (other then work ) it feels like I just dont do it for him and to make things wrost I caught watching porn and doing what men do when they watch it. It really really hurt my feelings I dont understand why he needed to do that shsn hs has the real thing anyways I just wantex to know if any one hAd some imput for me because I dont know what to think


Jodi - posted on 11/07/2013




You need to talk to him. In a mature adult relationship, if there are issues with sex and intimacy, you need to learn to talk to each other about it. This builds and strengthens your relationship. Just the fact that you couldn't even use the term "masturbate" in your post (as opposed to doing what men do when they watch porn) indicates to me that maybe you aren't comfortable discussing sex and intimacy with your partner. You need to get past that if you are to have a long-term successful relationship. As a couple, there will always be times that you are not on the same page with each other sexually - you need to learn to be comfortable talking about it.

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