getting pregnant by someone you thought was right But...

LaShonda - posted on 08/01/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )

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I have a twisted story.. I am 30 weeks pregnant and the birth father of my baby is no longer around. He still want to be in the streets, hanging out with friends. He has one child already by another woman. Come to find out recently the woman he has a child with is pregnant again, and he does not know if it’s his or not. So the boy was cheating on me because how else would you have two woman pregnant at the same time. I have known him for 13 years, and it hurts! I keep praying that I can just get over it and move on with my life and raise my child the best way possible.

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Michelle - posted on 08/01/2013

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Unfortunately your not the first and you definitely won't be the last to go through this.
The best thing to do is do what Evelyn said and get everything sorted out.

LaShonda - posted on 08/01/2013

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Hes 26. I know that should have alerted me. Its my fault because i keep taking him back. I listen to his "awh i have change.. im ready to settle down and change my life" i took that lie and thought things was really changed, but guess not

Ev - posted on 08/01/2013

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I am sorry that you are in this situation. Unfortunately, this guy had gotten with someone and she had his kid and is gain. That I think should have been a red flag to you. Also the habits you described he loves to do. How old is this guy? He does not sound very responsible. I would take it to court and get custody, visitation and child support set for sure as he needs to take care of his kids.

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