Gladys - posted on 01/28/2014 ( 59 moms have responded )
I am having a meltdown. My husband and I are 23 and still finishing college. We have a 14 month old daughter that we are raising at my moms. We had plans to move out, but financial issues keep us here. We had intercourse during a BC switch and I could be pregnant again. I took a Plan B the night of, but my period still seems overdue. I can't lie about how I feel towards motherhood. I don't enjoy it at all. I was always told that my feelings would change, but they haven't. I tried explaining this to my husband and he still seems to think that I would want to keep this baby if I am in fact pregnant and I don't. We don't have the money, time, and to be honest I don't have the love to give it. Has any other American couple here gone through and adoption? How does it work? I tried to look up the information, but it is all a little confusing for me.
I am not here for condom lectures, nor am I here for "you will change your mind." I have a 14 month old that I struggle with daily and I wouldn't wish that on any other baby.