going Through seperation and kids being manipulated by dad

Amy - posted on 06/19/2015 ( 1 mom has responded )

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I'm so overwhelmed with my situation in the past year I have dealt with police,courts,stalking disrespect from my kids and the dad,threats,lies,false allegations against me done by my kids manipulated by their dad when is all this gonna end?and on top of everything finding out this man had an affair with my cousin and like if that wasn't enough he was very inappropriate with my other two cousins and this cousinthung I found out he did it when I was still together with but I was in a domestic violence relationship with him so when I left him my two other close cousins told me the disgusting thing he had done he violated the restraint other so they finally arrested him and when he had court he fled to fl to his mothers house I ended up in a shelter of dv but my kids ran away with him and he ultimately found out where it was located so they exit me out and stop homeless I ended getting a voucher to stay in motel for two months at the welfare expense and he will continue to stalk me and contact kids and taking one of them to spend the night with but he will always get away with everything not until that day he got arrested and he himself followed me all the way to police station now his in fl but my kids took on his role of abuse towards me they have completely trash the house im renting and one them disrespected a family member of the owner and now I got told im gonna ask you to leave if thus continues im just praying to the lord he fights for me and gives me grace and favor not to loose this home😞

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Kemla - posted on 06/19/2015

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Hi this is already too much for you to go through, Kids often copy what they see their parents do, their dad's behaviour is disrespectful and your kids are hurt and distracted and this is what they're acting out of frustration. Whenever kids, no matter what their age is, looses security especially when it involves a parent they look for a way to fix it. Being unfaithful to you has broken their trust in their dad, having issues with restraining order and the law has broken their security, Abuse towards you as their mother is their way of releasing all that anger, frustration and disappointment they have to endure, they want answers, they want things to be normal because their trust have been broken.

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