Grandma/Mom

Cassandra - posted on 04/03/2014 ( 3 moms have responded )

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My grandson has lived with me for the last 7 years , his mom have came and visited a few times . We'll last year he went through a bit of a disrespectful stage in a hast of a moment I called his mom telling her to hurry up and get a place so he could come live with her, the next day I talked with her telling her I was just very upset with him I don't want him to leave .ok so that was the end of it .2 months later she calls saying she has her own place she was coming for him , I get up set tell her no ! Thing get to we're she hasn't spoken to me since Nov. it's the last day of school for spring break for 2 weeks she calls with no notice tells me to have him ready to go with her for the 2 weeks .i worry the hole time she not gong to bring him back but she did thank god but informs me that he is moving with her in the summer that's what he wants she says, he tells me he just wants to visit with her and still leave with me mind you he'll be 12 the 22nd of this month . What should I do?

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Jodi - posted on 04/03/2014

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Well, she doesn't have to let him come back, unless there is a court order saying you have some level of custody or visitation. If you live in a place where there are grandparent's rights, you could investigate the possibility of setting up an agreement through the courts.

Cassandra - posted on 04/03/2014

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Yes I do realize he has a say in it but I truly beleave she won't let him come back if he wants

Sam - posted on 04/03/2014

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Have a mother\daughter talk. Explain to her how you feel. Do you realize she is doing cause she feels she lost your trust. You can not have you grandson forever. Tell him to stay with her for the summer. See how he likes it. He should have a say in things too.

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