Mary - posted on 10/29/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )
Hi my name is Mary and I'm a currently raising my two granddaughters at 48 years of age. They came to me last year in August and its been over a year now and I still have them. Here is my story with this situation. My son and the mother had the children removed due to drugs and this behavior is still going on. When CPS removed the children the parents didn't do anything they were suppose to do so they closed the case and left me. They didn't give me guardianship over the children which has made it very hard for me legally. The parents don't want the children but they want sign them over for me to be their legal guardian. We live in Texas and CPS just left a whole lot of loose ends and now they won't help me with anything. I have went to all kinds of agencies to try and get managing conservatorship and they all have turned me down saying I could pay for an attorney. They are going to end the children's daycare on Oct. 31, 2014 because they said I would need to be on TANF in order for them to keep their daycare. I have become so frustrated with the system and I don't know where else to turn for help. I exhausted all of my savings because I was working 3 jobs before I got the babies and now I'm substitute teaching. I lost two of my jobs because it took CPS so long to get them daycare. The parents don't come see their children nor support them in any way. I have applied for child support only to be told that they can't find the parents (really). I have given them their address as well as them being in and out of jail. Please believe me when I say that I have no faith in the system. So if anyone know of any way that I can keep these babies in a safe place in case the parents just get up one day and decide they want to take them back. I am open to any information that anyone may have. Thank you and have a wonderful day.