Debbie - posted on 10/28/2015 ( no moms have responded yet )
My grandson at 14 was just diagnosed with Aspergers. We love him dearly no matter what. My daughter and son-in-law are struggling with this. They are going to counseling with their son. I want to support and help in any way but my daughter doesn't share anything. We went to counseling with them once at their request and we wanted to be there. She is not keeping us in the loop and when I try to make suggestions from things I have read like through Circle of Moms, she shuts down and recently hung up on my. This is emotional for stressful to get this diagnosis and I know they have to work through it. They are leaving us out of it and when I try to communicate about what I am reading, she thinks I'm critical of her. Has anyone gone through this as grandparents??