had three csection and want another

Samantha - posted on 09/20/2013 ( 21 moms have responded )

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Please no rude people I am 25 year old married and happy with my hubby. I have three kids one born on may 6 2011 one on april25 2012 one in aug6 2013 I had her six weeks ago all do section I had section because my first baby I was not opening to 9 so the doc said I need a section after that repeat section my second child high blood pressure my third no issues please I want another baby we been having sex with out perfection.....with out talking bad about me or my ideas please no rudness just need. To now I have not had a normal period we just started with out perfection two days ago if I get pregnant how do I count my weeks without a period and can I die since I had three section and six weeks ago please help am a healthy person ....please get back at me

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Jodi - posted on 09/20/2013

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If you had a c-section six weeks ago, it is FAR too soon for you to be considering another pregnancy now. Medical professionals recommend you wait for AT LEAST 18 months before your consider it. Given you have had 3 c-sections in the matter of 2 1/2 years, I'd be very concerned if I were your doctor. You have just had major surgery. You would be high risk, and risking not only your own health, but that of your potential child. You really need to give yourself more time to heal.

Julia - posted on 09/20/2013

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A C-section is considered major surgery. This is really a conversation to have with your doctor who knows your medical history not on a message board where the majority of people are not doctors and even if you get someone who is a doctor they have not treated you and are not familiar with your specific situation. I highly recommend to talk with your doctor before trying for another baby especially so soon.

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Jodi - posted on 09/28/2013

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LOL, I love it when someone changes their name on their profile. It proves the troll theory.

Samantha - posted on 09/27/2013

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Lisen I post here if I don't like an answer then I ignore the ignorant who writes it that's all

Samantha - posted on 09/27/2013

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Lisen Jodi I don't care about ur opinion don't reply to me no more I have no time for you

Jodi - posted on 09/27/2013

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You asked on a public forum. You don't get to dictate who responds or how they respond. The fact is I answered your question. You just didn't like the answer.

Samantha - posted on 09/27/2013

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Jodi I did see my obgyn and I did told her we are trying ....she said she seen alot of woman like me who did not had the chance to have normal and had after another section

Jodi - posted on 09/27/2013

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Jainy, are you illiterate? I never actually advised you not to have another one. I advised you that 6 weeks after having a c-section was not the time to do it.

Samantha - posted on 09/27/2013

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Jodi I dnt want no one to tell me hay get pregnant because actually is my life...i want people who have pass through something almost the same...like the other girls talk and I felt good with there thought but u talk like if ur a obgyn u speak rudly and like I said is my life I understand all about the heeling and is to early but I spoke with my doctor and I think that's enough .....and wen u talk u talk like ur someone mothers ur not talk with respect not like ur my mom

Jodi - posted on 09/27/2013

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Jainy, you came here seeking opinions. I highly doubt there is anyone who is going to recommend you get knocked up again 6 weeks after your third c-section. Believe me, it is still safer to wait if you want a 4th c-section. You asked could you die, and I am advising you that yes you can and I have explained why. But yes, it is your life. Knock yourself out. Not quite sure why you bothered asking in the first place. If your OB has told you it is a risk (does your OB actually know you're not waiting), it isn't like you were ever going to listen to a bunch of women on the internet.

Good luck.

Samantha - posted on 09/27/2013

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Jodi am not asking for trouble if I want another child I will do so point blank...i spoke to my obgyn I don't need to speak to a stranger are u a obgyn if so let me now

Samantha - posted on 09/27/2013

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I now a repeat section fourth is not good ok but even if I wait a year or two is fourth section eny ways ur not my obgyn so...i don't care about ur thought I came here to see what others had pass through ...and like I said my choice Jodi don't reply to me no more I think is my life

Samantha - posted on 09/27/2013

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Jodi am tied of ur stupidness ...i came here to listen to people thoughts not to be told what to do there's alot of mothers that had section right after another hun dealt ur so ignorant...and alot of woman don't even wait 6 weeks they get Prego faster...so is my life u don't pay my bills or is not ur lissue if I do or not so don't reply to me eny more ...thats why is bad tonask for thoughts because ignorant people like u have some stupid shit to say

Jodi - posted on 09/27/2013

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Which part of having unprotected sex 6 weeks after a c-section is extremely risky are you not understanding? Especially with a 4th c-section. Are you actually willing to risk your life and leave your other children with no mother because you aren't prepared to wait another year or so before conceiving again? I'm sorry, I find your attitude ignorant. Yes, it is your choice, but seriously, get a clue. This is not about your current health or about the 4th c-section!!! It is about the fact that it takes longer than 6 weeks for a c-section to heal!!

Anyone who is willing to deliberately get pregnant 6 weeks after having a c-section clearly has no common sense.

Samantha - posted on 09/27/2013

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Jodi my first two are 7 weeks apart the other 7. 8 month apart. And yes ur rightly doc said 4 section is risky after another but they seen alot happen ..after my last birth my iron was good my health was good and my baby is good to I understand what ur saying ....i just had my chek up and my obgyn said I am good I spoke to her about my issue she said alot of woman she seen with 5 repeat section even 6 she said is high risk but is my choice she said my health is perfect ...is not really good a surgery after another but is realt my choice she told me... Also thank u so much for ur opinion..😊 other then my hubby I have no one else to speak to...also please give me an idea I ovulated Sep 20 I took a ovulation test I had sex right in 19 20 21 22 23 24 today I notice wen I wiped a mucus creamy brown light discharge..not a period is weird thoe no smell....i don't now if I am pregnant or what can itt be.....please what do u think....i have not had a period after the birth so am confuse

Jodi - posted on 09/27/2013

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This has nothing to do with how healthy your other babies were or how healthy you are. This has to do with the fact that a c-section is a major surgery and you are not giving your body the appropriate time to heal. Having sex with no protection 6 weeks after having a c-section is asking for trouble.

Samantha - posted on 09/27/2013

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Cecilia my first two child were after another and I did not lost the baby he was a healthy boy but I understand u what ur saying

Samantha - posted on 09/27/2013

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Julia I have the same doc for all my pregnancy I think maybe asking some moms will help

Samantha - posted on 09/27/2013

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Will I went for my chek up thanks to both of u for ur answers realy nice of u ....will I need help...my health is perfect...i talk to my doctor she said it is a little risky after three section but my health is fine my fist daughter was may 6 2011 she was healthy So was I my son April 25 2012 7 months later I got pregnant with my third child I had her Aug 6 2013 ....all were 8pound to 8 pound 4 ounce...i am healthy no smoke no drink no nothing I eat healthy...i love my kids it really hurts me i always wanted to have normal labor and i couldn't,😞. Because my first child i was healthy no issue just that i was not dailating so quickly only t0 6cm so doctor did section and will my secon section was repeat and my third.. ...but please don't get me wrong i want another child me and my hubby....sorry for the spelling trying to speak quickly thanks girls

Cecilia - posted on 09/20/2013

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I don't think you can count since you did not have a period. At that point you would need to rely on a sonogram to measure size, which it can be wrong.


As far as can you die, well that is a subjective question. You're putting yourself at risk of infections. If you get an infection and do not get proper care, yes you can die. Also, if you get pregnant right now your body has not healed so your odds of losing the child or having complications are higher. Why not wait 2 more weeks?

Truth be told, you should really go to your 6 week check up and talk to your doctor about your plans. They can give you specifics of what complications can arise.

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