Handle anger in 10 year old son

Vidhya - posted on 10/13/2013 ( 4 moms have responded )

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I am a single mother of a 10year old son. From recent he gets angry and back answers. His school grades have also dropped in this semester

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Vidhya - posted on 10/16/2013

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My son never todate had any unreasonable demands. He never asked for toys if his friends have something. I have not pampered him with things. He is very helpful if i am clearing vessels and he comes in kitchen to talk of friends he help to keep the dishes in racks. Helps to set the bed.

He loves to draw. Recently had a drawing competition in school. He practised a lot. His class friend distributed paper slightly late when he asked for paper she pushed him. so in process he couldnt complete the drawing. But after school he showered the anger on me. He gets anger bolts suddenly. He feels sorry later but cant control his anger. He is not open enough to say whats wrong if someone telling him anything.

Vidhya - posted on 10/15/2013

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I had an arranged married to a man staying abroard. After marriage i went along with him for 3months at this time got pregnant so he asked me to return to mom's place for 7mths showing he cared. When i was in pains and had to be admitted. He declared he was never interested in me and his parents forced the marriage. After which underwent the aeparation processs for a year as it was not mutual. so we got separated as soon aa my son was year old. His dad immediately remarried and never met me or my son.

Ev - posted on 10/13/2013

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So where is dad in all this? Does dad see him regularly or participate in anything that your son does? How was the separation? These could be factors in why he is acting out because it hurts the child more than you would know when parents are not together or do not get along well.

Is it the way he is raised? Did he get away with everything? Did he get what he wanted when he wanted it? Did he pick up this behavior from other kids in school or that he knows?

If you could answer these questions....that would help.

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