has anyone experienced there vagina has changed even before the birth of the baby..ive always been ok bt i am having my 5th baby and since i have been 5 months it has widened...i was gonna buy that vaginal stick but should i wait til after the baby also
If your husband loves you , he isn't going to leave you at all. He will stick by you thick and thin.
My husband and I have 6 kids. My oldest is going on 16 and youngest is almost 1 year old. My vagina area is starting to get back to normal..Sorta. Actually I don't think your vagina ever goes back to normal. You know how it is when you loose your virginity. Once it's gone, it never comes back. I look at myself in the mirror and oh my....I look like this! When my husband and I got together I was around 120 lbs and I thought I looked good. I was skinny with perky boobs (as he called it). I now am around 160 lbs and I feel bigger than a cow. I hate it. I've excercised the best I can. I had an up and down c-section with my oldest son ( my first child) and it has been awful since. I got this big line going from belly button to vagina hair. I still have problems with it getting pain here and there in it. So, excercising isn't all that great. I had my other children vaginally and it sure was a difference. My last son was almost 11 lbs at birth and man did I feel like I was gonna die. Just because I had a big baby and it wasn't all that swell during labor and delivery, doesn't mean yours is going to be hard. My 4th child...my daughter was so easy that I didn't feel the labor pains. I felt these little things coming and going that wasn't anything to me. I told my doctor (midwife) about them, she told me to come in and she'll check me and well...i was 9 cm dialated. So, she was out no more than I got there. It was the easiest and fastest ever. Boy did i wish the rest was like that one. Hell if i could have another girl, i would, but i don't think i'd make it through another. My vagina felt awful after having my last...jesse. I thought it was going to fall out. Before i had him...yes, my vagina felt wider because of getting ready for birth. who knows you could be farther gone than you think you are. When i was pregnant...i was trying to get it on..I was trying to stimulate myself to go into labor on my own, instead of being made to have him. My bottom felt like the grand canyon. After labor and birth... I even looked at myself in the mirror and goodness...it was nasty. It made me sick. my stitches came out and hell if i was gonna have myself cut again and being sewed back up. forget it. now my vagina hole area seems fine. It don't look like it was big like it was. The inside of my vagina feels a little tight that i can only do it in a sitting position. My husband says he loves me know matter how i am. My boobs aren't perky anymore and he says he loves them too. I can't keep him off.
If your husband loves you, he'll be satisfied with you. Besides you said sex isn't all that great now. During a certain period of time during pregnancy is normal to not want sex or sex not so appealing. It was like that with me too. As for the anal thing...Me nope..never have done it. My sister did this with her husband and she shit all over his thing and he grabbed and went running down the hallway hollaring.." you shit on my d_ck". of course my sister had to tell me all about it and I laughed my ass off about it. It was funny as crap.Me, no way...no thing is going in there. It's bad enough of having a hard turd coming out. It's gotta hurt. But, don't get me wrong, I am not looking down on you whatsoever. everyone has their own thing to do in sexual activites. I could tell you some things my sister said she has done, but there isn't enough room for that.
Don't worry your vagina will go back to normal ( after having your baby, ), to the normal stage of after having kids shall i say. You will feel yourself after a while. Give your body time to adjust. Your grand canyon of a vagina WON'T stay that way.
Lindsey - posted on 05/12/2012
aaaahhhhh thak so much..i just dont wanna end up with a fany like the mercy tunnel..lol...i have never experienced this before and well to be honest,sex hasnt been that good lately with my partner,and so now im havinhg to do anal sex to feel like a women if that makes any sence to u..omg ,cant believe im telling u this..lol...but to be honest this is getting me down and im scared ill loose my partner
Lindsey, It is normal for this to happen. I have 6 kids and mine did the same thing. It is because your body is stretching again and preparing itself for that big day.My last one I just had 11 months ago. My body felt like it was getting out of wack and after i had my son, It seems wider of course.I thought that my insides were going to fall out. I look back on it now and laugh, but then, It diffently wasn't something to laugh about, I thought it was all going to fall out. Now , since you are having your 5 th child you probably feel heavy and all down there. Sometimes it comes from the pressure of the baby laying down low. You could also have a tilted uterus that makes you feel this way too. So, join the club, I've been there to. I even had to have my husband look down there to see if it was normal looking.He of course said, it looked the same as before, even though it didn't feel like it to me. Now, I feel alot different. My area down there is a little bigger on the outside cause i had stitches that opened back up a little and the hell with it getting cut again and resown. It was horrible to first time. As long as my insides isn't coming out, I'm fine. But the inside of my vagina is still tight and sorta feels smaller after having my 6th. It's diffently taking me time to actually get back to my old self. Actually you never get back to your old self, Do you? after having all these kids, I guess not. My sister has 8 and 1 on the way, so i'd imagine how she is.....So don't feel bad , you'll be okay.
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