Has anyone had miscarriage early and had a D&C?If so how did you manage to get through it?

Mayra - posted on 11/02/2012 ( 4 moms have responded )

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I just had a miscarriage at 9 weeks :( I was on bc and I had no clue I was pregnant! I am devastated even though I was on birth control just knowing there was a little life forming inside me was wonderfull.Dr's say they dont know what caused it.I already have a beautifull 5 year old and thank God every day for her.I would like to ttc again but I am scared.Anyone that has gone through this any mature advice will be trully apreciated.

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Rachel - posted on 11/02/2012

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I've had a miscarriage and a d&c. It was hard on me emotionally. I was really young (17) but was still very upset.

The actual procedure was fine. I just had some mild cramping.

I'm sorry for your loss. Even though you weren't trying, it doesn't ease the pain of losing your baby.

I would think that being on the birth control was the problem. If you do become pregnant from trying while not on birth control, I'm sure the baby will be fine.

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Mayra - posted on 11/02/2012

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Wow,its very nice and thank god you were abe to get pregnant again.And yes,it is very hard.Thank you.I feel lonely as a bit depressed as it is still very present,thank you

Rachel - posted on 11/02/2012

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No problem.

It is hard. I had three more healthy babies after my miscarriage.

I was scared because they also said they didn't know what caused it and that sometimes "it just happens"

Each pregnancy I was scared something would happen but, they all came out healthy and perfect.

They will more than likely watch your pregnancies more closely now because of the miscarriage and that's not a bad thing. Just means more ultra sounds :)

Mayra - posted on 11/02/2012

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Thank you Rachel for responding.Its been very hard emotionally.i also believe bc was the reason.i will try again but at the same time im scared.

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