Samantha - posted on 10/16/2012 ( 6 moms have responded )
I am 18 weeks pregnant and have been dealing with some difficulties in my friendships.
One of my friends sent me an email (after 10 years of friendship) and proceeded to scold me for being so negative and unpleasant to be around. I was dealing with severe depression in my first trimester - and JUST came out of the "darkness". Anyway this friend wrote this email and bashed me for that - and then went into a tangent about how irresponsible I was for not planning the baby! Why would my "so called friend" do this WHILE I am pregnant?? She has a 2 year old and should know of all people.
Another best friend of mine has been acting more distant and has now befriended the girl who I mentioned above - along with another friend of mine that I had a falling out with years ago. This has all happened since I found out about my pregnancy.
WHAT is GOING on!?
It makes me so sad and has really caused so much stress in my pregnancy. Wouldn't these people have more sensitivity to a friend who is going through pregnancy?
This just baffles me.