have you ever got into a verbal fight with the "BM," or "SM?"

Hollie - posted on 06/11/2011 ( 3 moms have responded )




Wasnt sure if any of you have ever fought with the BM or SM of the situation because of issues!!!


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We had a text message war when I had a newborn and was trying to 'talk some sense' into her.... since it didn't work w/ my ex. I was a stupid, emotional wreck though (who wouldn't be when their husband leaves them w/ two 6 year olds and a newborn though).

And there was a slight 'incident' online last year, but otherwise.... nope. I've only spoken to her on the phone a couple of times and really have no desire to ever do so again.

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Nope... It only causes more problems. I leave it for my hubby and my bonus daughters bm to work things out. Not always easy to keep my mouth shut but in the end I didn't marry her and if I get too involved it hurts my relationship with my bonus daughter. I try to remain neutral.

Jodi - posted on 06/11/2011




Not my job. If there is an argument to be had (or discussion on issues), it should be between my husband and the BM (or me and my ex). Step parents should stay out of it.

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