Having alot of anxiety about the birth of my baby

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~♥Little Miss - posted on 07/19/2016

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Ok, I was guessing it was concerns about the actual delivery....but this is equally as daunting.

First off, please don't make the mistake many women make by not putting him on the birth certificate, it makes matters more complicated in the future. Secondly, find yourself a lawyer to start getting sole custody now (if that is what you want). The grandparents can certainly have visitations, and so can he. But this all sets you up for child support. Don't be a fool and reject that. You will need it to help take care of your baby. I hope you have a good support system. Best of luck love. Having a baby can be scary enough, then this situation on top of it doesn't help.

Lillian - posted on 07/18/2016

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well I'm 19 and I'm going to have my 1st baby in a a few weeks and I have so much going through my mind. I split up with the father of the baby a few months ago because he wasn't putting anything into our relationship. He hasn't been able to keep a job for more than 3 months and when he did have money to spend he bought things for himself and drugs for his friends. He has a son with another woman and currently has no parental rights to see him because of failing several drug tests and domestic violence charges against him. My ex's mother is paying for everything for my ex and is trying to get joint custody back for his son. They both are very mentally unstable and like to lie and be sneaky. I don't mind if my ex wants to be in my baby's life but I'm afraid that his mother will try to take the baby away from me completely. Plus I don't really trust him because I know he won't take care of the baby and he didn't take care of his son when he did have rights to see him.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 07/18/2016

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