Having problems dealing with my 11 year old daughter and soon to be 9 year old son the fight they dont get along they dont listen to me my daughter is very defiant towards me she doesnt listen to me and more please help me i dont no what to do

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Melinda Marie - posted on 01/22/2015

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Thank you so much they both think I love one more than the other but I treat them the same Im a single mother doing the bestie that I can but sometimes I feel like I'm a failure they blame me for their dad not being around but he moved on and had other children how do I deal with that??

Cheryl - posted on 01/22/2015

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Ha sweetie I understand totally because my 14/15 year old daughters don't get along either its hard but what I try to do is to communicate with the both of them on to the point they both try to compete for my love and I listen to both sides and let them know I love them both the same as for my 15 yr old she was and still is very defient so instead of me keep yelling I take things from her like electronics something she loves also I let her know I'm the mother and ur the child if u want respect u have to give it that's what and how I deal with her being defient u keep ur head up don't give up cause when u do they go to the streets

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