Tinamarie St - posted on 10/15/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )
My husband wounded me early on in our marriage we have been married 5 years. I am now really processing our relationship, it was difficult to do at first because I was bereaved over my mothers death. Having said that during the first 120 days of our marriage he spent the nite at his ex-wifes house, called him and she answered his phone and said he was asleep in Her bed naked, you can imagine my pain and confusion on top of trying to find my way through the loss of my mother along with being a newlywed this happened in oct 08 I spent x-mas alone because he was with her. It certainly wasn't due to me being emotionally or physically available to him this type of behavior continued till mau 2010, here are in 2013 & I am questioning some of his activities on his computer and phone, he is getting text msgs via facebook to his cell phone on a bogus facebook account I intercepted one on his phone that read whatcha doing with a shortcode to reply to, so I sent a response hanging out with my wife. When I asked him he became very defensive ans said hw didn't know what I was talking about. So I showed him & he still denied it. When i walk in the room he
will hurry up & get off of the computer. We havent had relations in 4.5 years its physically imposible I know what I feel. He says I shouldn't spy on him.