Sally - posted on 05/28/2014 ( no moms have responded yet )
I have been with the same man for 6 years. He went to a party and had sex with a friend of his. She ended up pregnant. Two days after I found out and ended things with him I found out I was pregnant too. He thinks the girl is lying as no proof provided yet but thats besides the point. He says he wants to be there for me and our baby and we are his family. He claims he just messed up drunk at a party and will spend his life making it up to me. My first instinct is to use logic and know that he cheated and that is the end. Game over. But my heart is saying that we have a child, a child we have wanted for years and I thought I couldn't get pregnant and here is this miracle. He messed up one night (confirmed with her it was one time too). He keeps apologizing but i'm just not sure if its enough. What would you do? It's 6 years and a family gone for one mistake or it's common sense that it happened once so it;ll happen again????