He just doesn't look at me the same...

Alex - posted on 07/27/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )

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My boyfriend and I got pregnant way early in our relationship so we didn't really have the time to ourselves and we were long distance so I ended up moving half way across country to be with him and start our family. I just remember how he used to look at me that corner look in the eye kind of deal. And the whole lust and desire. Now after having our son in January and gaining 55 pounds after baby but lost some just that extra 20 pnds of fat and flappy skin and stretch marks I feel I can hardly get him to kiss me longer than 2 sec...he says he loves me and I look good and I just had a baby but I just don't feel it. Seems empty and feel like he is just not that into me anymore..

That's life...

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Alex - posted on 07/27/2013

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You are right sandy. I am thankful he is a wonderful man who loves his son and being a dad and takes care of us both. I just need to get out of this "haze" of I don't even look like me anymore so I don't feel like me anymore and then wonder if he still likes me now..I have a great family i just need to work on me and hopefully we can find some time for us to get back to some of the romance.

Thank you for taking the time

Sandy - posted on 07/27/2013

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Dont worry about it...your hormones are changing after you have a baby and you really need to give yourself a pat on the back for everything you have gone through. It is normal to be discussed how you look after you have your baby ...it just takes time for the skin to get back to norman. As long as your boyfriends is treating you and that new baby kindly...just be thankful that he is not a jerk! Is there someone that can take care of your baby while you two can go someplace alone for awhile...even if it is just a short walk....to make up for that time you didnt get previously??

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