Ashley - posted on 03/20/2014 ( 3 moms have responded )
I'm extremely happy with my boyfriend/best friend. I have a 6 yr old son from a previous relationship even though I went about having him the wrong way, out of wedlock. Next time around I just refuse to make the same bad choice twice. My bf and I have talked about marriage plenty of times no known issues. 2 days ago he says that he wants and is ready to start a family. I was happy but I told him that I wanted to wait for another year or so because of school. So we both agreed then I bring up the "M" word and everything was different. He said he rather have children first. That's far more important to him than marriage first. He and I are also both Christian so this has me not only confused but it has me looking at myself questioning myself. I've been kind of down the past 2 days and haven't talked to him much. I love him and he loves me very much but do I compromise myself? Any advice would be greatly appreciated ladies.