Michelle - posted on 06/07/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )
Ok so my partner and I have had our fair share of issues...I posted a few times on here about them. Things were going good fight wise, he was studying (which he has decided not to do and is now job searching after spending almost 2 years at home doing nothing other than the basic looking after my daughter (as in feeding and bed time, the rest was on his computer) which I didnt mind, but back to the issue, I hadnt had my period and finally got it after about 2 years (because of the implenon I have in) so sex was off the table and he got really frustrated because I wasn't pleasing him in other ways if you get what I mean. However I've noticed that he won't let me hug him, kiss him or show him pretty much any kind of affection unless he asks for it, he has said multiple times why do we have to have sex only when you want it? I try to explain cause its a bit different for me than it is for him and I don't want to hurt his ego by faking really badly because I really dont feel like it. I dont know what to do, it's a major facepalm and I just get sooo frustrated at his lack of understanding, I feel he is trying to take the upperhand somehow which I dont like because I like to think we are equal, and him refusing to let me show him affection is just going to push me away and create issues yet again which I am really over and now our daughter is 2 I don't want her to be exposed to soo many rediculous issues again. Please help me if you can!!