Jacquie - posted on 11/19/2014 ( no moms have responded yet )
Our daughter left on Friday 11/14/14 she turned 18 on 11/12, She left on Friday afternoon while we were at work to come home to find a note in her bedroom. To all of us a complete shock!! she moved in with her boyfriend and his mom, that she only been dating briefly. He is still in high school...What kind of parent allows this? We are devastated she will not communicate or text with any part of her family. our daughter has been loved& well taken care, she is kind, friendly and compassionate. I have driven to the house where is staying she will not come to door, her grandfather has done the same and still no response. I have left messages on the phone to the mother begging please let me know my child is safe, please have her call me. We just want to know if she is safe. Are we wrong for wanting this? We want some answers from her it would help us understand the decision she has made. We do not like the decision she has made, but we think we have to accept it? Her sibling is looking for answers and is trying to make sense of all this too. How do we move forward in the healing process? I am looking for positive feed back, suggestion and recommendations. Keep the negativity to yourself please. My family is experiencing the most difficult situation any of us have ever been through.