Billie - posted on 06/05/2013 ( 7 moms have responded )
I have a 18 year old daughter. I have been divorced for 4 years and my ex and I dont get along. He cheated on me and confessed to me and the kids. We divorced and he started lieing to my daughter. He told her that I hurt him and that I was cheating and it started to hurt my relationship with her, he continued to lie to her and told her that I cheated with my now husband while i was married to him. Long story short, she has stopped talking to me, I havent talked to her sence November of last year. She moved out and now lives with her dad and his new wife full time. This woman has said she hates me and I believe is the last woman he cheated on me with. I have good reason to believe it but will not go into it right now. I have and would never talk poorly of her dad or even his new wife. I dont know what other lies he has said but she is so angry with me they must be bad. She told me that I never loved her and that she hates me for what I did to her dad. I missed her 18th birthday and now I am about to miss her graduation. I have seen her a few time in public places with my ex and his new wife. My heart is broken, I dream she comes home every night. I feel so alone. My new husband is so supportive and is hurting as well. He cared for her just as he cared for his own. She has become someone I dont reconize at all. She stopped talking to most of her long time friends. She now mimmic's my ex's new wife. She cut all her hair off and has her manorisms. She will stand between them and stair at me, smiling. I feel like I cant breath, my heart races, and I feel like I am going to faint when I have seen her like this. I just have to leave as soon as possible. How could I have been so horible too her, to deserve this. She was my sweet baby. How can it be that her dad confesses to cheating and becomes the "good guy" in her eyes. I really want to see her graduate, I dont even have to talk to her, I just want to see my baby cross the stage!