Lyn - posted on 12/27/2011 ( 3 moms have responded )
my daughters father has me in court to get overnights with my 8 1/2 month old child, it got continued after his lawyer totally spined things around to make me look like some awful person, the father left when wewere a few months pregnant at my request for a number of reasons, he lied and said i wantedto drinkand smoke when i was pregannt, R U KIDDING ME. The judge appears to be completely on his side and now talking about 50/50 He never even knew he was having a daughter and never met her until she was 5 months old he has only seen her 9 times and has no idea what to do with her. I am just following expert advice to wait to start overnights until she is older,(18 months) I just began letting him take her alone, which apparently letting her ge tto kjnow him was also wrong I should have just handed my daughter to him. I just dont get it all the experts say you need to buils a relationship, i fear she is going to fell scared and feel like i abandoned ehr, thos feelings will last fo ever and i dont know what to do.