Jennifer - posted on 02/17/2013 ( 4 moms have responded )
Hello Everyone, i'm very new to this so i apologize if i'm writing in the wrong area. I need some much needed advice pls. I have 3 children, 2 of them girls and youngest is my boy. he is 3 years ols. Because he is with girls constantly, he is use to playing with girls and their toys and watching lots and lots of barbie movies and my little pony movies etc. He also prances around and sings like he is Repunzel in tangled (his favourite movie :) ) It has become a problem for my husband as he blames me for his girly tendencies. (if you know what i mean). for this reason, i've enrolled my son into a little soccer group but its been 2 lessons down and my son shows no interest and is wanting to do dancing steps and singing whilst the others are kicking the ball around.. IS my husband right?? have i ruined his chances of being a real boy because he has been around girls all his life? When we are out with other families, he doesn't seem to know how to get along with boys and starts to hit them and so on. I'm so sad and im starting to blame myself that i haven't given my son the ability of a boy like other mothers that have boys and are REAL boyish behaviours.. Feeling quite overwhelmed her with guilt. Any helpful advice would be highly appreciated. Thank you in advance for reading and listening.