Hello, I dont' even know where to begin with this situation. I don't think anyone will ever understand what my family has been going through for 6 yrs. I will try to be short but it's truely impossible! My daughter had a child who is now 7 yrs old. Her name is Micayla, she is the best thing that ever happened to our family except there's one huge problem. That is the father of this childs mother. Race is not a factor to my side of the family with this case but the Paternal GM is black and she makes this all about race. The father of Micayla doesn't want anything to do with her but we have been in and out of the court system for the past 6 yrs due to the fact the PGM wants to take control. This woman is the worlds worst NIGHTMARE. The PGM files court paperwork continuously against my daughter for contemp yet they are the ones who dont follow the courts orders. The father has orders to be with the child every Wednesday and every other wkend but the sad part is he doesn't want anything to do with Micayla. Its the PGM who takes the child on court order visits, which you wouldn't mind but shes continueously late picking her up and late returning her. Court order is my daughter is to know where her child stays on over night visits and since the PGM got evicted over two yrs ago for non payment of rent in the amount of $26000.00 we have no idea where she takes her. The problem is we don't know where the father or the PGM lives. Not only that the PGM husband is a convicted child Molester and the order states Micayla is not to be around him, yet the PGM has my granddaughter around him. This woman does what ever she wants and nobody in the court system will do anything because they are all intimadated by her. She has had my granddaughter put out of three day cares to date so far. Because she thinks she can go there and do what she wants and when she wants. She has also made it that the father doesn't pay any child support because he refuses to work so she fills out paperwork that he's indingent therefore the judge has just order $0 child support! This woman has filed and lost six times already for Intervening but yet now the Judge who has heard this case in a Trial twice already is going to allow it to be heard again!! What is wrong with the Court System today??? Were would you all turn to, seems like nobody wants to write a story about this in the paper.
Janet - posted on 01/21/2013
Shes not a party to the case so u cnt file against her. She's knows all the ins n outs of the system so she fills out all the paperwork for him n he signs it. My daughter has tried to terminate his rights but when the courts tried to call him as their last attempt to try to contact him the only number they had was his mothers . he won't give anybody his phone number so anybody who needs to contact him has to go through his mother's phone number that's including the school the court everybody . these people know how to scam the system so bad it's unbelievable . every court case that they have and believe me they have a lot of court cases they have a different lawyer for because they don't pay people they want everything for free they don't want to pay child support when the judge ordered it this woman file paperwork to appeal the order!
I could continue with this story for weeks!
Janet - posted on 01/20/2013
Thank you for responding Nicole. No she has no rights in CT. But this situation is so unreal. No one can believe wht we go thru!! Her job consists of reuniting fathers n their children. He has six kids with 3 woman. My granddaughter was child #2. The courts keep allowing the filings. The father lies on stand stating how much he loves this child but the truth is he never spends no time with her:( . We've already spent over $25 thousand in lawyer fees. This woman even went after Montel Williams (he had a talk show) saying he was a bad dad.
Does she even have any rights? Not sure what state your daughter is in but in some states grandparents have no rights. The courts will listen then throw it out telling them to stop wasting everyones time. If she is filing under the father then thats a problem. If your state doesn't allow her rights your daughter needs to step up and tell the courts to prevent her from seeing the granddaughter.My brother went thru this with his inlaws when his wife passed. They made a ton of false claims until he finally looked into it and realized they have no rights here to see the kids. Good luck.
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