Hello. I Have a 3 year old daughter and i have a OP on here father because he got in a bad wreck with her on his visiting time. and because he is abusive in both ways. He had suprervised visits with her but started to cancle them with no reason and he didnt show for court aug 1st so they said he would have to take me to court to get them back. i want to get full custody of her and my fiance wants to have her last name same as his. Its been over 6 months since he has seen her he has not even tried to see her. My fiance wants to adopt her to. What do i need to do .. Plz help me

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Nicole - posted on 12/04/2012

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ok thank u soo much. i just want to get sole custody before he tries to. esp with him being idk where and i dont trust him at all

Michelle - posted on 12/04/2012

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You have to ask the court to have her fathers rights removed before your fiance can adopt. I would not go through with any of this until you are officially married as the courts will look more favorably on it if you are legally wed.

Nicole - posted on 12/04/2012

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ok thank you and yes i do. her father about killed her and he just uses her as a tool to get to me.. i have always taken care of her. Top it off he has never paid child support

Juliannemarie - posted on 12/04/2012

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Wait until after you get custody then let your fiance adopt if thats what you want.

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