hello, i know this site is for women and I'm sorry for intruding, i give my word that i will delete my account after i get some input. My fiancée just had her first miscarriage, now she has two other shaving and healthy children (not mine) but after having the miscarriage she doesn't know what she wants out of life she feels like she is just stuck in a rut so to speak and ours killing our relationship she doesn't seem happy anymore and i think she just feels a lack of accomplishment. i really don't know what is going on . I could really user some input, is this common? What should/can i do? also brother of us knew about this pregnancy if that helps? thank you and again I'm sorry for intruding

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Garrett - posted on 11/04/2012

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Thank you Melissa, i was planning on the flowers idea she has asked me to leave fur a week so she can have some alone time because she feels lost. And the killer part is i don't feel like i can do anything about it.

Melissa - posted on 11/04/2012

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I had a miscarriage with my third child as well. Its horrible and scary and you have so many sad feelings going on at once and it feels like nobody can relate to your pain during that time. You cant help but to blame yourself, even logically you know it's nature. First, send her flowers saying you care so much about her and you are so sorry this happened. Give her some time to mourn the death of her third child and ask her how she feels when you see she's upset. It may help her get her feelings out and then hopefully in time, you can start trying to move forward. I'm so sorry for your loss.

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